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The Dark Side of Being a CEO
(nobody talks about this)

Backstory
Everyone thinks being a CEO is glamorous.
Freedom. Control. Autonomy.
But if you’ve built something from scratch, you know the truth.
It’s not luxury or ego. It’s the hardest, loneliest, and most uncomfortable job in professional work.
The Reality of Leadership
You don’t get to pick the easy stuff.
You’re the one who faces the hardest problems in the business every single day.
The late-night messages from clients. The conversations that sit in your chest long after they’re over. The decisions that no one else can make.
You can’t fully celebrate your wins because you’re already scanning for what could go wrong next.
And even when you’re anxious, tired, and unsure, you still have to show up and lead from the front.
The Truth
Being a CEO isn’t for the faint of heart.
Even after years of running my own business, I’m still learning how to lead better.
Every stage brings new challenges and new blind spots.
Social media sells the dream. But the truth is, it’s a lot of pressure, uncertainty, and growth that hurts before it helps.
Running a business will always be the hardest job in the world.
Period.
Final Takeaway
The best founders aren’t fearless. They’re structured.
They don’t fight chaos with more effort. They build systems that make the chaos manageable.
Once you have that, you finally earn the freedom everyone talks about.
If this feels familiar, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. You just don’t have the systems that take the pressure off you.
That’s what we build.
Reply to this email or DM me with the word “SYSTEM” and I’ll walk you through how we can help you automate your entire business pipeline in less than 30 minutes a day.
Luke
Founder, Atticus